limits??

i got asked if i had any limits. i know, i know M/s so no limits, right?? well, not exactly.

i had mentioned in a previous post how all things in our dynamic were thought out and agreed upon BEFORE entering into our arrangement. so technically you can say i have no limits because i have no say but truthfully, since i have full faith and trust in my Master, i know He won’t do anything that we had originally put onto a hard limits list.

we have however renegotiated things over the years! i feel it’s always good to take a minute and assess all things in your dynamic, decide what works, what doesn’t and what you may want to add or increase. originally it was every 3 to 6 months, then yearly and now whenever it seems like a good time! lol the last few years have been crazy so it was fly by the seat of our pants kind of days …

so limits, well we’re monogamous so there are a bunch of things right there that we don’t need to discuss or consent to. there is however a fantasy of adding a unicorn to our sex life once in a while. this is no easy task so i can’t say it’s really something we’ve hashed out exactly but …. the fantasy i wrote and the post what is it about the penis both touch on how it might work.

a definite hard NO is blood sports. as a person who has used cutting as a method of self harm, there is absolutely no way i can even consider that. i’ve written a few times about this on the other blog and even about a worried time for me when i accidently cut myself in the shower, shaving! it was a nasty long gash on my leg and i was worried it may trigger a need. fortunately it did not.

scatt play – no thank you, not our kink and i know Master has no need for it so still not an issue. so much so that i regularly use an anal douche to be sure of cleanliness since we do engage in a lot of anal play. it also feels a bit humiliating, so that works for me too! *wink*

i’m not sure if i have any other kinky limits …. humm …

the boys, that’s a limit, Master does not have the right to unilaterally decide anything to do with the future of the boys. they are my children too so everything is discussed and agreed upon, first.

i can’t really think of any others – if you can, ask!

Master decided to work this morning to make up for all the new expenditures this past week! He doesn’t normally and i never like it when He’s away on the weekend but i’m putting on my big girl panties and not sulking or whining about it.

i made sure to give Him a proper send off this morning! ‘muffled whimpers’ comes to mind as a title for this story should i write it! lol He tweaked and twisted my nipples and grabbed and manhandled my breasts – all while having Himself DEEP into my throat.

my pain, His pleasure and not much noise to be heard! He’s so E-vile! thank you, Master ❤ ❤

happy saturday, friends!

❤ n