at the beginning of my journey into BDSM and D/s i never would have considered something like chastity, at least not my understanding of it anyway! flash forward and here we are, we’ve actually been building up to this point for, well i guess about two years now.
at first it was just playing around with the belt for a few hours, then days …. over a weekend for example, just to get a good feel for what we liked, what we didn’t, what worked (even if my little slutty self got pouty! lol) and what we NEVER needed to test out again! 😛 for now at least, lots of stuff we enjoy now we never would have been in the right place mentally and emotionally to enjoy then. so – never say never, i suppose!
the irony of the whole thing is that when practicing chastity we/i actually have more sex!! i get hornier, feel more sexy, more desired and more willing to engage with Him, without having to be coaxed or wooed for a lack of a better way to state it. i just throw my slutty self His way and see what He desires from me. normally He desires a LOT more than He likely would have done alone … if that makes sense?!?
i started this yesterday but didn’t have time to finish it …. looks like two posts today!!
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